Dissapointment to the matches

Today, Malaysia team lost to China for all the matches in semi-finals.

Were the players' mental strength deteriorate? Insufficient energy? Inadequate skills? Pressure? Or luck was just not there?

I am unhappy, hope has vanished.... My idol lost!

I was really disappointed, but let the bygones be bygones.

Hope Malaysia can get both Thomas and Uber Cup 2 years later.

Be positive I guess is the best cure.

Group Work

Today, my team had presentation on CIT subject on Astro company.

Ok, the outcome was so-so because:

• The presentation slides were not attractive ( Mr. Burn suggest to me to put more diagram or picture)
• The length of the presentation was short a compared to other teams.
  
• Sir asked lots of question ( This showed that he didn't understand about what we presented)

Also, I found out that my group members were not participative enough. There is something wrong I can sense but I can't tell. But every time I have meeting, the members will give all kind of excuses to me. Then, they will be late for sending what I asked. Hey... these were minor problem.

Being a leader, sometimes I really feel demotivated when I talk to them, they don't give feedback. Or, some even "order" me for doing something (that they suppose to do).

Ok, enough for the complaints. I need to stop blaming.

As I have read Dale Carnegie's work, How to Win Friends &Influence People 1st chapter 'If you want to gather the HONEY, don't kick over the BEEHIVE".

In summary of this chapter, Don't criticise, condemn, or complain.You need to consider for example put in people's shoe. If you were him( the person the annoyed you), will you be doing the same thing?

Haha--- I have broked the fundamental rules.

Ok, this will be my starting point to work on my mistakes.

GO Malaysian team

I really hope our Malaysian team can get Thomas Cup and Uber Cup and prove to the world we memang boleh bukan cakap boleh atau memang tak boleh.

Felt so bad, I didn't watch Lee Chong Wei's match yesterday! Sorry Mei Xian, I have wasted your money for texting me. LOL. This was because I had cold fight with my sis and she had "conquer "the Tv yesterday. Bad sis......



Anyway....

Malaysia team... Please make me proud! I can't do anything for them but just wanna show my patriotism(haha) and give them support here.

All the best to Malaysia badminton team...

Dissapointment

Around 40 minutes ago, I was waken my phone. It was my friend mengyao calling.She told me I got B+ for the assignment as she had obtained the feedback form.

What a heart-breaking moment! After the tick and thin, sweat and tears I had gone through in the assignment, I got credit only? This result dissatisfy me! I have worked really hard and suffer insomnia for several day and actually weeks, my work was A's work. Why? Why the result always far from my expectation?

This really demotivating.

What to do?

I need some time to adjust myself.

My boat is sinking! Can someone help? No, I need to help myself first. Please show the way! Think! Think! Be positive!

Now, I really hope I can score very well in examination.

Smile

My dad forward me with this email, I do not know where the source was from( sorry to the author as I can't cite your work).

However; I would like to share with you this:

Smile like... when you were a kid...

....to be beautiful when you grow up!

Even should your beauty fade....you can still look happy

No matter what happens to you, keep a Smile on your face

Have a good day!



I feel so touch especially when he knows I was not happy the day before yesterday.
He sent this to comfort me.


My insight:
We are made of flesh and we can easily stir up by our own emotion such as anger, frustration, sorrow etc. No doubt we can't reject negative feeling , but , we can choose not to hold it and let it away after calming ourselves .

It's best to convert the negative emotion to positive pushing force.Think and take action to the source or cause pertaining to your unhappiness.
Tips: Focus on the issue not people.


I hope you can find your own progression to lead you the way to happiness.

Note: Remember to smile! ^^

When in Rome

• I feel my "finger itchiness" today. Haha.... That is why I write this blog.

• This was the movie I watch with my mom, sis and cousin last Tuesday. It is a romance movie.
• It talked about the main actress,Beth who did not believe in love after experienced failure before. She was like many women today, workaholic and had married to her work.
• Then, she took the coins from "Love Fountain" (note: I am not sure whether it is called) and thus a few admires came for her. Then the "adventure" began in her.
• At last, she found her true love.
• Overall, it was hilarious with certain jokes in.
• It ends happily.
• I do not describe the story plot in detail it is because:
  

1. I am lazy
2. In case you wanna watch, it will take away the surprise you can obtain from the movie.
   (excuse actually... sorry!)

I wish everyone can find their Mr. Right or Miss Right soon. And the story ends with fairy tale ending- Happy ever after ^^ . Believe it will come into reality.

Who knows? Miracles can happen.

In the picture of myself

I do not like to take photos since young. However, every time I visit facebook or other networking site's photo album, I have always admire people in the photos. Sometimes, I do wish I have many pictures of myself to keep those memory vividly of what I have encountered.

These few days, I have found the reason behind it after I have read a motivational book. Why I do not take photos with my friend ( except only they ask for or sometimes need to pledge me....."I am such a difficult person?" lol)?

It is actually very simple, it is all about self-esteem.

During secondary school time especially, I have no confidence at all. I do not even like my look, as I appeared not-so-pretty as compared with other girls (this was how I felt). Every time, I felt disappointed with the class picture taken every year. I had always compare myself with others, not only how do I look, my grades, etc. I was not happy that time as I was fooled by my negative thoughts. I had no self-trust. Actually, I am my worst enemy... (Do you know you are your worst enemy?).

Today, when I think of the past, I felt so sorry of myself. Why? I did not accept who I am. It is rather pathetic to dislike yourself. No one can make you feel inferior when you, yourself allow it. You belong to yourself. Every time we work to pledge people; to make people like you; to make people accept you. But the question is, are we really happy? Can happiness be measured by just how frequently you smile or laugh? Why can't we make ourselves happy; why do we lives under horror of your negative thought? Life is once and don't you feel is a waste to fill our only once with sorrow, dissatisfaction, problems, etc? I am not saying that we would not encounter bad things but is how we perceive it and handle it.

To err is human. We always make mistakes. But the sad in mankind is they don't want to accept the mistake they made and constantly stuck in the self-blaming situation where it inhibits progress. The worst mistake of all is actually not to accept mistakes. Mistake made is meant for learning, not to make you stuck there.

Back to my case, I had let myself down. But it is not too late to live your life to fullest. Have confidence towards youself, Lynhuei, you are equally good as other people. We need to live everyday as if isit is the last. The past experience need to be get rid and not let it drag you from progressing.

I like myself and I am who I am.

I want to be happy.

I am a successful person by fulfilling my goals in the future.